PROBLEM SOLVER, SUPERHERO(ine), WORLD SAVER, WHATEVER

Am currently in a headjam...

Sometimes things just make me wonder, what makes most people think I can sort out their mess?

There's a rather unpleasant 'situation' in my house. So 'one' came and complained to me about 'other' punya perangai (i won't give the details here).

So what did I do?

I listened...

Thought about it...

Give my opinions...

In the end, it's still up to 'one' to figure it out. I can't do much since it's between 'one' and 'other'.

Unless things got out of hand, I'll let them sort it themselves. Otherwise, I'll just have to call a 'persidangan'. *sigh*

Then, there's 'another' who only contact me whenever she is in a 'jam'. Talk about abusing a friendship huh?

And there's countless others who moans/complains/whines about whatever-problems-under-the-sun. Sheesh...

And I am supposed to draw my magic wand and swish and swash it all awaaaay..... Yeah right... If only I can do that lah...

And it's very ANNOYING when these people asks for your opinion/help, but only to do apa dia suka. when it doesn't work out, comes back to me... and it starts all over again

And when I give my opinion, dismiss it by saying

"aiya Chris, so easy for you to say lah. Not you mah"

You're damn right. It's not ME, it's YOU! and shouldn't you be trying to find your own solution. I am a practical person and so my decisions will be deeply rooted in logic, to hell with jaga anyone's hati. If they can't face the truth, then tell them to bury their head in the sand lah!

Sheesh... Grow up!!!